Every day my inbox fills with requests. Tributes, tasks, questions, confessions. And tucked inside almost every message is the same thing: a fetish. A craving. A secret fantasy that someone has finally worked up the courage to tell me.
Being a London dominatrix means I’ve seen it all. Or at least, almost all. Some requests are sweet. Some are shocking. Some are so predictable I can finish the sentence before the submissive types it. And some are so deliciously perverse that I can’t help but smile as I read them.
So today, I’m going to share a little truth. The fetishes my subs beg me for the most. And — because I know you’re curious — the ones I actually enjoy.
The Usual Suspects
Let’s start with the classics. The fetishes I see over and over again. The bread and butter of online and in-person domination. If you’ve ever served a Mistress — or dreamed of it — you’ll probably recognize these.
- Pegging — The number one request. No surprise. The fantasy of being taken by a Mistress with a strap-on has a powerful pull. It’s about surrender. It’s about role reversal. And it’s one of my specialties.
- Findom (Financial Domination) — The act of tribute, emptying your wallet, letting me control your finances. It’s a heady cocktail of arousal and humiliation. One click and your money is mine. Many subs crave this more than physical touch.
- Humiliation — From whispered insults to full public exposure. Subs want to be told they’re worthless, pathetic, small. They want to be broken down — and then thanked for it.
- Foot Worship — Another classic. Kneeling at my feet, kissing, licking, massaging. Worshipping. A fetish as old as power itself.
These are the staples. The ones that fill my DMs daily. The fantasies that never go out of style.
The More… Niche Requests
Then there are the requests that drift further into the unusual. The ones that make me raise an eyebrow or tilt my head, curious.
- Cuckold Fantasies — Watching, waiting, imagining me with someone else while you’re ignored. This one taps into deep humiliation and longing.
- Chastity Control — Subs sending me the key (literally or figuratively) to their locked cage. Asking me to decide when, or if, they’re allowed release.
- Task-Based Training — Not just scenes, but lifestyle tasks. Daily rituals, photos, journals. The craving for structure and discipline beyond a single session.
- Public Tease / Exhibitionism — Being commanded to do something daring in public. Nothing illegal — but thrilling enough to make the heart race.
These aren’t requests from every sub. But they pop up enough to notice. And when done right, they can be some of the most powerful experiences.
The Fetishes I Actually Enjoy
Here’s the part you really want to know. Which fetishes light me up? Which ones make me smirk with anticipation instead of sigh with boredom? Every Mistress is different. These are mine.
- Pegging — Still at the top of my list. There’s something intoxicating about guiding a sub through this experience. It’s not just penetration; it’s psychological. Watching a man tremble as the power dynamic shifts — that’s art.
- Findom — Not because of the money (though tributes are essential). But because of the psychological surrender. You’re handing me control of something society says you should never give up. That vulnerability is delicious.
- Chastity Training — I adore long-term control. The discipline it requires. The trust it builds. Watching a sub struggle, ache, and transform while in my control — it’s deeply satisfying.
- Task & Ritual — Creating structures for my subs. Daily tasks, journal entries, photos, obedience check-ins. It’s like sculpting a submissive over time.
Those are the fetishes that excite me. The ones that make me lean forward instead of lean back. The ones where domination becomes not just a performance, but a living art.
The Fetishes I Tolerate (But Don’t Love)
Every Mistress has limits. There are fetishes I respect but don’t personally enjoy. I won’t name them all here — some are simply too extreme or unsafe — but I will say this:
I value boundaries. Yours and mine. Just because something turns you on doesn’t mean I’ll do it. And just because I decline doesn’t mean I judge you. It just means it’s not my art. The best domination happens where desires overlap — where the dynamic feeds us both.
Why Subs Beg For These
Sometimes subs ask me, “Mistress, why do I crave this?” As if I have a secret answer. The truth? Every fetish is a story. Pegging might be about surrendering masculinity. Findom might be about letting go of control. Humiliation might be about being seen at your most vulnerable.
The power of a fetish isn’t in the act. It’s in the meaning you attach to it. And my job as Mistress Sophia Sahara — whether online or in person — is to read that meaning. To craft experiences that let you explore it safely, intensely, beautifully.
How This Plays Out Online
Because I’m also a digital dominatrix, a lot of these fetishes unfold through the screen. It’s amazing what can happen with a phone, a voice note, and a few well-chosen words.
- Pegging fantasies played out through guided tasks, videos, and mental training before a real-life session.
- Findom tributes sent with trembling hands, followed by a humiliating audio clip from me acknowledging your surrender.
- Chastity control where you send me daily photos of your locked cage and wait for permission to release.
In some ways, online domination amplifies the power. Because you’re choosing to obey without me physically there. Because you’re surrendering in your own space. Because it’s constant, not just an hour in a dungeon.
Why I’m Sharing This
Because I want you to understand: behind every message you send me, behind every tribute, behind every task, there’s a Mistress who has seen it all. Who can tell when you’re serious. Who knows how to guide you deeper. And who genuinely enjoys parts of this as much as you do.
This isn’t just a job for me. It’s a craft. A dance of power, vulnerability, ritual, and desire. And when your fetish aligns with mine? That’s when the magic happens.
Your First Step
If you’re curious about how these fetishes feel when guided by a real Mistress — not just a fantasy — the first step is simple. Join my OnlyFans (yes, it’s free). That’s where I share the unfiltered clips, the behind-the-scenes moments, the voice notes, the tasks.
It’s the safest, simplest way to step into my world. To explore your cravings with me in control. To start where so many others have started before kneeling at my feet in London.
Because at the end of the day, your fetish isn’t just a kink. It’s a door. And I’m the one who knows how to open it.