Serving a Mistress is more than a fantasy. It is a discipline, a mindset, and a daily practice in devotion. If you truly want to submit, you must learn how to do so with intention, awareness, and respect. These ten rules will help guide you toward being the kind of submissive a powerful Dominant woman like myself would even consider worth noticing.
Submission Does Not End When the Session Does
Your devotion is not something you turn on and off like a game. A submissive lives their role. Whether we are in a session, exchanging messages, or you are waiting in silence, your mindset should always reflect your position. Serve in your actions, your thoughts, and your choices. That is how I know you are Mine.
Obedience is Non-Negotiable
When you are given a command, you follow it. Not when it’s convenient. Not when it feels good. Immediately. Entirely. Obedience is the foundation of your role. Your willingness to follow direction without resistance tells Me everything I need to know about your submission. If you hesitate, disobey, or second-guess Me, you are not ready.
Respect My Time and Energy
A true Mistress does not owe you a moment of Her time. Every message, every glance, every word I give is a gift. You do not message Me to chat or to demand attention. You reach out with purpose, clarity, and reverence. If you want to take up My time, you had better make it worth My while.
Consent is the Foundation of All Power Exchange
Before anything can happen between Us, there must be mutual understanding. You must know your limits. I must know your truth. Consent is not optional. Do not lie to Me. Do not say yes when you mean no. Safe and ethical power exchange only exists when both parties respect the rules of engagement.
Presentation Reflects Devotion
You may not control what you look like, but you can control how you present yourself. Be clean. Be appropriately dressed. Address Me properly. Grammar, spelling, and tone matter. A poorly written message shows carelessness. And careless boys do not last long with Me.
You Must Earn My Attention
Attention from a Mistress is a privilege. It is not owed to you because you are horny, lonely, or curious. You earn it by showing devotion, discipline, and respect. You prove your worth with tributes, tasks completed, and quiet loyalty. You do not beg. You do not chase. You show value and wait to be chosen.
Anticipate My Needs Without Assuming
A good submissive pays attention. You study My preferences. You read My content. You observe patterns. But you never assume. You ask permission before acting on a desire. You serve based on what I’ve shown I want, not what you hope I will give. That is how you show Me you are paying attention.
Protocol is Law
If I have rules, you learn them. You follow them. You internalise them. If I say messages must begin with a title, then they must. If I require daily check-ins, you don’t forget. Protocol separates those who fantasise from those who serve. And believe Me, I notice who is consistent.
Accept Correction Without Ego
Mistakes will happen. That’s not the issue. What matters is how you respond when corrected. Do not argue. Do not sulk. Do not run. Accept your punishment, absorb the lesson, and improve. A submissive who grows from discipline is a submissive worth keeping.
Serve with Purpose, Not Performance
Do not try to impress Me with clichés or copycat submission. I am not interested in someone playing the part of a good boy. I want you to be one. Real service means putting Me first, not putting on a show. It means being present, thoughtful, and ready to give without always receiving.